A move is a big event for children – new surroundings, a new room, sometimes a new school. With good preparation the change becomes an adventure rather than a burden. Here are practical tips so the move works for the whole family.
Involve children early
Explain the move early and in an age-appropriate way. When children understand what is happening and can have a say – for example in designing the new room – they feel more secure and look forward to the change.
- Talk about the move early and positively
- Let children take part in decisions
- Plan the new room together
- Say a conscious goodbye to the old home
Moving day with children
On moving day itself, childcare is worth its weight in gold. Small children are often best looked after by grandparents or friends. Older children can be involved with their own «moving box» and small tasks.
- Arrange childcare for small children
- Keep a box of favourite toys handy
- Plan snacks, drinks and breaks
- Set up the children’s room first
FAQ
How do I prepare my child for the move?
Talk about it early and positively, involve the child in decisions and design the new room together. Familiar things like favourite toys provide security.
Where should the children be on moving day?
Small children are usually most relaxed with grandparents or friends. This lets you focus on the move while the child experiences the day stress-free.